
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a condition that becomes apparent in some children in the preschool and early school years. It is hard for these children to control their behavior and/or pay attention. A child with ADHD faces a difficult but not insurmountable task ahead. In order to achieve his or her full potential, he or she should receive help, guidance, and understanding from parents, guidance counselors, and the public education system.
Does my Child have ADHD?
If the parents doubt whether their child has this disorder, they are advised to consult a doctor. And as we know ADHD cannot be diagnosed from a single person's view, several people who are familiar with the child's behavior are interrogated by the doctor, like the child's class teacher and the neighbor. He could then examine the behavior of the child and look for any possible differences in behavior as compared to other children.
As the next step, the doctor would advise the parents to have taken various tests for the child that includes vision, hearing and blood tests. As a preliminary step, the doctor might suggest some medications that could possibly retard the hyperactive behavior of the child. However, this alone cannot narrow the diagnosis procedure. Yet, this can play a significant role if the child is surmised to have ADHD.
Moreover, the doctor might suggest consulting a psychologist, because, in most of the cases, the child may show a few symptoms of hyperactive behavior at the doctor's place, yet possess this disorder.
How should my Child be Taken Care of?
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder results in the children being mentally suppressed since it affects the nervous system and retards them from living their normal life. The disorder has no proper medical cure although proper parental guidance can prevent the child from getting weaker. Parents must remember certain points when taking care of their children in their normal way of life. Some of the guidelines are as follows,
- Spend as much time as possible with your child and try to listen to what they convey. Listen to their feelings and expressions rather than to their words.
- Do not expect a lot from the children. Accept whatever they are able to deliver but boost them to do to their potential.
- Compensate their negatives with their positives. Encourage their every small talent and support them in their interests and their positive abilities.
- Praise their deeds however small they may be. Appreciate them with kind words and warm smiles, once in a while.
- Whenever they do any mistake, do not chide them harshly. Rather make them understand that what they did was not right and make them feel what is right.
- Plan and schedule the daily work and make them follow them daily. Make it a practice to abide by the rules whatever they might be.
- Engage them as an important and useful member in imposing the family rules and schedule.
- Express your love to them by showing physical contact like hugging or playing with them. Showing physical affection develops a sense of security in them.
- Assign small household works to them. Giving them responsibility oozes confidence into them.
- Involve them while managing the monthly budgets of your house. Teach them about planning and management.
- Provide them with small amounts of money and ask them to spend it sensibly and manage the expenditures.
- Engage yourself in their games and extra curricular activities. Providing them company in the fields that they are interested can make them feel contented.
- Encourage and make them develop their talents. Give them independence to work in the field that they are fascinated.
- Give them company at nights by orating nice and pleasing stories. Also, listen to what they speak and to the stories that they tell. Boost them to ask questions and doubts in your stories. Encourage and improve the creativity in them.
- Create calm and serene places for them to study and work for their school activities. Such an environment can increase their concentration levels and their self-confidence.
- Make their mind clear and safe. This not only needs a peaceful environment but also calm and soft people to interact with them.
- Make sure that they feel the same at school too. Interact with their teachers and arrange the needed formalities to assist the child. Make every arrangement to provide a clear environment for the children to learn and develop personal qualities.
- Never scold or chide them if the fail to score good marks in their academics. Instead, inject positive attitude and encourage them by citing good examples of improvement so that they tend to develop on their own and prove themselves the next time around.
- Most important of all is your personal activities. Always behave decently and act properly so that they learn by themselves from your activities. On the whole, act as a role model to them so that they start admiring you and wish to develop the good qualities from you.
What can be Done at Home?
The most important thing necessary for the parents is patience. They must be patient enough to modify their home life so as to pay more attention to their child. Parents are advised to do the following:
- Make a routine. Make your child do his routine work such as sleeping, eating, doing his homework, waking up, doing the chores, and playing computer games at specific hours.
- Be sure he understands you. Whenever you make a conversation with your child, maintain eye contact and explain things in a clear tone. Avoid speaking too much at a time and ask him to repeat what you say.
- Compliment the child. It is important to reward the child when he keeps up the routine and constantly shows a good behavior.
- Keep in touch with the teachers. Do not ignore talking to the teacher about the child's behavior at school from morning till evening. Make sure the child behaves in the exactly same way as he does at home.
- Appreciate his efforts. Parents are advised to pay attention to the efforts that the child puts in, instead of the outcomes of those efforts.
- Impart social skills. Children who suffer from ADHD often find it hard to develop good social behavior. So make sure that the child spends a considerable time with his friends.
- Have a constant eye on them. Since the children with ADHD are impetuous, constant adult supervision is required.
It has been scientifically proved that, as the child grows older, the symptoms of this disorder get better. Hyperactivity gradually gets diminished as the child reaches his teenage. Though, there are children who reach their teenage and yet have mood swings, lack of concentration and are impulsive. Such children also find it hard to have the task completed on time. However, it lies in the hands of parents, who, along with the doctor and the teachers must put in the best of their efforts to give the child, a bright chance of overcoming this disorder.